It’s one of the most feared things by women, but most are lucky enough to avoid the situation entirely. Heidi Withers on the other hand is faced with a nightmare-her soon to be mother-in-law. In a private email that was sent to Heidi about her mannerism from Mrs. Bourne, her soon to be mother-in-law, Heidi found it so ridiculous that she decided to forward it to a couple friends.

The email has now gone viral and anybody can read the email that specifically points out Heidi’s ‘flaws’. Problems began when Heidi went to visit her fiancé, Freddie Bourne’s parents in west London at their home in Dawlish, Devon.

There was something that Carolyn Bourne, 60, and celebrated flower breeder did not like about her soon to be daughter-in-law. The email stated: “It is high time someone explained to you about good manners. Yours are obvious by their absence and I feel sorry for you”.

Her fiancé stated that the email has been discussed with the family but is not willing to make any further statement. “Obviously this has been discussed with the family but we are not commenting other than that”. Heidi’s younger sister, September, is also trying to keep a low profile during this time and is also unwilling to make a statement on the situation.